Young people often live off of their emotions alone. The reason many high school sweethearts get married right out of high school is because they are thinking with their hearts and not their heads. While nothing is impossible, it can be extremely difficult to get married before you are settled, both financially and socially. If you marry too young, you may find yourself living in a poor financial state and you may not be mature enough to handle such a commitment.

When your parents tell you that marriage is a difficult thing, you should listen. When you move out and get married, you should be in the career that you desire. It makes it much easier if you already have a job and are finished with your schooling before you get married. When you have two students who are married it can be difficult to make ends meet.

If you are not emotionally and socially settled before getting married, you could find yourself restless in your relationship. You may seek out other friends and want to party all night, without your spouse. You need to have all of this type of behavior out of your system and be settled before getting married.